Keeping Secrets in Marriage

  I don’t think I should have to tell my wife everything I’ve done or am doing in my life. What’s the big deal? I choose not to share some things because they’re irrelevant. I love my wife. I don’t have affairs and never would, but she thinks I’m having an affair and is threatening […]

How Can I Get Him to Commit?

  After four years she’s ready to settle down and commit and he’s not. Should she give him time? Should she stay or go?   Transcript: : Welcome to Let’s Get Real! Today’s episode is about what happens when one partner is ready to settle down, and the other isn’t. Tracy from Toronto writes: “I’ve been […]

My Boyfriend is Texting Another Woman!

  My boyfriend and I have been living together for the past year and I just discovered that he has been texting another woman. I’m so upset and don’t understand why he’s doing this. I really love him and have invested a lot in our relationship. Should I ignore it and hope it’s nothing? Should […]

When to Have “The Talk” in a Dating Relationship

  Nine months into a new relationship he feels betrayed and lied to when he learns that she has had cancer all along and didn’t tell him. Did she “lie”? When is the right time to share personal information with someone you’re dating?   Transcript: Welcome to Let’s Get Real! Today’s episode is about when to […]

It’s Not Fair, She Changed the Rules!

  They agreed not to have children when they got married, and 5 years later she changed her mind and wants a baby.He loves her and doesn’t want to lose her, but doesn’t want more children. What should he do?  Transcript: Welcome to Let’s Get Real! Today’s episode is about what to do when your […]

How Can I Get My Ex Back?

  They’ve been together four years and he just broke up with her. She loves him and wants to be with him. How can she get him back? In this episode we break the rules to get real and help.   Transcript: Welcome to Let’s Get Real! Today’s episode is about Accepting Reality and Letting […]

He’s Perfect But I’m Not in Love!

  Her boyfriend of 4 months is the perfect guy, but she’s not in love with him, feels zero chemistry, is just going through the motions and doesn’t know what to do. What would YOU do?    Transcript: Welcome to Let’s Get Real! Today’s episode is about chemistry in dating. Jill from New Jersey writes: “I’ve […]

Help! I’m Being Used!

  He loves her and she says the sex is great and she loves him but not for the long term. He’s confused and doesn’t understand why she won’t commit. What should he do?   Transcript Welcome to Let’s Get Real!  Today’s episode is about facing the reality of being used. Ed from Portland writes: […]

My Marriage is BORING! Should I Have an Affair?

What do you do when your marriage is stale and boring? Divorce? Affair? Let’s get real about how to spice up a boring relationship.   Transcript: Welcome to Let’s Get Real! Today’s episode is about spicing up a stale relationship. Jennifer from Fort Lauderdale writes:”My husband and I have been married for 17 years and […]

Radical Intimacy: Ten Strategies for a Close, Fulfilling Relationship

  In this program we show you 10 strategies for dramatically increasing intimacy in your relationship. This video is a preview. For full access our Radical Relationships video series be sure to join our free Getting Real Club using the registration box on this page. [2:37]   Transcript Welcome to our Radical Relationships Video Series! […]