Keeping Secrets in Marriage

  I don’t think I should have to tell my wife everything I’ve done or am doing in my life. What’s the big deal? I choose not to share some things because they’re irrelevant. I love my wife. I don’t have affairs and never would, but she thinks I’m having an affair and is threatening […]

How Can I Get Him to Commit?

  After four years she’s ready to settle down and commit and he’s not. Should she give him time? Should she stay or go?   Transcript: : Welcome to Let’s Get Real! Today’s episode is about what happens when one partner is ready to settle down, and the other isn’t. Tracy from Toronto writes: “I’ve been […]

Dealing with a Sexless Marriage

  I’ve been married for 20 years and my wife and I haven’t made love in over 8 years. I’ve brought this up to my wife and she says we’re not “connected.” What does that mean? We don’t even kiss anymore except a quick peck on occasion. I miss my wife and can’t believe our […]

My Boyfriend is Texting Another Woman!

  My boyfriend and I have been living together for the past year and I just discovered that he has been texting another woman. I’m so upset and don’t understand why he’s doing this. I really love him and have invested a lot in our relationship. Should I ignore it and hope it’s nothing? Should […]

When to Have “The Talk” in a Dating Relationship

  Nine months into a new relationship he feels betrayed and lied to when he learns that she has had cancer all along and didn’t tell him. Did she “lie”? When is the right time to share personal information with someone you’re dating?   Transcript: Welcome to Let’s Get Real! Today’s episode is about when to […]

It’s Not Fair, She Changed the Rules!

  They agreed not to have children when they got married, and 5 years later she changed her mind and wants a baby.He loves her and doesn’t want to lose her, but doesn’t want more children. What should he do?  Transcript: Welcome to Let’s Get Real! Today’s episode is about what to do when your […]

My Husband Won’t Let Me Read His Texts and Thinks I’m Nosy!

  Her husband values his “privacy” and doesn’t want her to read his texts and emails. Should she be worried? What should she do?  Transcript: Welcome to Let’s Get Real! Today’s episode is about Keeping Secrets. Rebecca from Sioux Falls writes: “My husband and I disagree about privacy. I think I should know his email and voicemail […]

My Husband is Feeling Rejected By Me!

  They’ve been married for two years and she had zero libido due to pregnancy, depression and stress. Now that she’s feeling better he’s angry and withdrawn for not having his needs met. What can she do?   Transcript: Welcome to Let’s Get Real! Today’s episode is about dealing with rejection. Carol from Columbus writes: […]

Help! I’m Being Used!

  He loves her and she says the sex is great and she loves him but not for the long term. He’s confused and doesn’t understand why she won’t commit. What should he do?   Transcript Welcome to Let’s Get Real!  Today’s episode is about facing the reality of being used. Ed from Portland writes: […]

My Marriage is BORING! Should I Have an Affair?

What do you do when your marriage is stale and boring? Divorce? Affair? Let’s get real about how to spice up a boring relationship.   Transcript: Welcome to Let’s Get Real! Today’s episode is about spicing up a stale relationship. Jennifer from Fort Lauderdale writes:”My husband and I have been married for 17 years and […]

Help! We’re Having a Noisy Argument!

  She likes a quiet house, he likes to blast the TV and music for background noise all day. How can they live together? [6:42]   Transcript: Welcome to Let’s Get Real! Today’s episode is about Solving a Noisy Argument. Nadia from Albuquerque writes: “My husband and I have a running argument.  When we are […]

Should We Share EVERYTHING?

  Should couples share EVERYTHING or have some secrets? How about email passwords? What do YOU think? [6:50] Transcript: Welcome to Let’s Get Real! Today’s episode is about ‘Should We Share Everything’. Mike from Dallas writes:”I think it’s important for a couple to be best friends. I confide in my wife and tell her everything… […]

Radical Intimacy: Ten Strategies for a Close, Fulfilling Relationship

  In this program we show you 10 strategies for dramatically increasing intimacy in your relationship. This video is a preview. For full access our Radical Relationships video series be sure to join our free Getting Real Club using the registration box on this page. [2:37]   Transcript Welcome to our Radical Relationships Video Series! […]

Can Appointment Sex Be GOOD?

He works 12-hour days and is exhausted when he comes home from work but she wants spontaneity and doesn’t want to schedule their sex life. What should they do? Can appointment sex be good sex? [9:42]   Transcript Welcome to Let’s Get Real! Today’s episode is about Appointment Sex. Ingrid from Rochester writes: My boyfriend […]

Boat or Beach- Is There a Third Option?

He wants to go boating, she gets seasick and wants to sit on the beach, a classic struggle of Land vs. Sea. Sea sickness or sand flies- can this relationship be saved? Is there a Third Option? What do YOU think? Let us know by submitting your comments below! [8:16] Transcript Welcome to Let’s Get […]

Romance is NOT a Test! (or is it?)

She wants him to WOW her on Valentine’s Day and he’s feeling pressured. Can you relate? What would you do? Let’s get real about love and romance. What do YOU think? Let us know by submitting your comments below! [5:45] Transcript Welcome to Let’s Get Real! Today we’re going to talk about how romance is […]