Keeping Secrets in Marriage

  I don’t think I should have to tell my wife everything I’ve done or am doing in my life. What’s the big deal? I choose not to share some things because they’re irrelevant. I love my wife. I don’t have affairs and never would, but she thinks I’m having an affair and is threatening […]

How Can I Get Him to Commit?

  After four years she’s ready to settle down and commit and he’s not. Should she give him time? Should she stay or go?   Transcript: : Welcome to Let’s Get Real! Today’s episode is about what happens when one partner is ready to settle down, and the other isn’t. Tracy from Toronto writes: “I’ve been […]

Dealing with a Sexless Marriage

  I’ve been married for 20 years and my wife and I haven’t made love in over 8 years. I’ve brought this up to my wife and she says we’re not “connected.” What does that mean? We don’t even kiss anymore except a quick peck on occasion. I miss my wife and can’t believe our […]

Dating and Religion

  I’m an atheist and I’m dating someone who is strongly religious and we’re getting serious. But in his religion it is unacceptable to be with someone who doesn’t believe in God and he told me that betraying his religion is killing him every day. We love each other. Is there anything that we can […]

My Boyfriend is Texting Another Woman!

  My boyfriend and I have been living together for the past year and I just discovered that he has been texting another woman. I’m so upset and don’t understand why he’s doing this. I really love him and have invested a lot in our relationship. Should I ignore it and hope it’s nothing? Should […]

When to Have “The Talk” in a Dating Relationship

  Nine months into a new relationship he feels betrayed and lied to when he learns that she has had cancer all along and didn’t tell him. Did she “lie”? When is the right time to share personal information with someone you’re dating?   Transcript: Welcome to Let’s Get Real! Today’s episode is about when to […]

It’s Not Fair, She Changed the Rules!

  They agreed not to have children when they got married, and 5 years later she changed her mind and wants a baby.He loves her and doesn’t want to lose her, but doesn’t want more children. What should he do?  Transcript: Welcome to Let’s Get Real! Today’s episode is about what to do when your […]

How Can I Get My Ex Back?

  They’ve been together four years and he just broke up with her. She loves him and wants to be with him. How can she get him back? In this episode we break the rules to get real and help.   Transcript: Welcome to Let’s Get Real! Today’s episode is about Accepting Reality and Letting […]

My Husband is Feeling Rejected By Me!

  They’ve been married for two years and she had zero libido due to pregnancy, depression and stress. Now that she’s feeling better he’s angry and withdrawn for not having his needs met. What can she do?   Transcript: Welcome to Let’s Get Real! Today’s episode is about dealing with rejection. Carol from Columbus writes: […]

Help! We’re Having a Noisy Argument!

  She likes a quiet house, he likes to blast the TV and music for background noise all day. How can they live together? [6:42]   Transcript: Welcome to Let’s Get Real! Today’s episode is about Solving a Noisy Argument. Nadia from Albuquerque writes: “My husband and I have a running argument.  When we are […]

Should We Share EVERYTHING?

  Should couples share EVERYTHING or have some secrets? How about email passwords? What do YOU think? [6:50] Transcript: Welcome to Let’s Get Real! Today’s episode is about ‘Should We Share Everything’. Mike from Dallas writes:”I think it’s important for a couple to be best friends. I confide in my wife and tell her everything… […]

Radical Intimacy: Ten Strategies for a Close, Fulfilling Relationship

  In this program we show you 10 strategies for dramatically increasing intimacy in your relationship. This video is a preview. For full access our Radical Relationships video series be sure to join our free Getting Real Club using the registration box on this page. [2:37]   Transcript Welcome to our Radical Relationships Video Series! […]

Boat or Beach- Is There a Third Option?

He wants to go boating, she gets seasick and wants to sit on the beach, a classic struggle of Land vs. Sea. Sea sickness or sand flies- can this relationship be saved? Is there a Third Option? What do YOU think? Let us know by submitting your comments below! [8:16] Transcript Welcome to Let’s Get […]

Romance is NOT a Test! (or is it?)

She wants him to WOW her on Valentine’s Day and he’s feeling pressured. Can you relate? What would you do? Let’s get real about love and romance. What do YOU think? Let us know by submitting your comments below! [5:45] Transcript Welcome to Let’s Get Real! Today we’re going to talk about how romance is […]